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Package Tour, by Maeve Binchy


 The Chemistry of Love

Written by Begoña Devis

BIOGRAPHY
She was born in Dalkey, Ireland, May 28, 1940. She studied History at University College of Dublin and worked as a teacher and as a journalist. She taught languages ​​at several girls’ schools, a job she combined with contributions to The Irish Times before deciding to dedicate herself entirely to literature. Binchy was known for her novels, short stories, and plays in which she reflected, with a sharp and biting wit, the reality of small Irish towns and their typical inhabitants. Throughout her career, Binchy sold more than forty million copies of her books, which were translated into thirty-seven languages, making her one of the best-known and most beloved authors in her country.
In 1978, Binchy won a Jacob Award for her play Deeply Regretted By. The National Portrait Gallery in London owns a 1993 photograph of the writer with Richard Whitehead (a Paralympic runner), and a painting of her with Maeve McCarthy (a famous Irish artist), commissioned in 2005, was exhibited at the National Gallery of Ireland.
In 2000, Binchy announced that she would no longer tour to promote her novels, but, instead, she would devote her time to other activities, and to her husband, the children’s author Gordon Snell.
She was awarded prizes such as the British Book Award for Lifetime Achievement, the PEN Irish Award and the Irish Book Award. Binchy’s work has been adapted for television and films on several occasions. Among her novels, notable titles include Under the Dublin Sky, Tara Road, and Circle of Friends.
She died in Dublin, July 30, 2012.

SUMMARY
The story talks about a young couple in their twenties, Shane and Moya, who met at a Christmas party and intermediately liked each other. Over time, they discover they have more and more things in common; they both like being in good shape, they both have office jobs, their family types are also similar (Shane has a difficult mother, and in Moya’s case, the difficult one was her father), and above all else, they love having holidays abroad. They explain each other their exotic travels, and consequently, they began to think about having a very good holiday that summer. It would be the high spot of the year for them.
They collect brochures as early as January, and try to discover the secret message behind the sentences apparently very attractive. They worked out the jargon so as not to be deceived. The trip can be exotic but not so much expensive. Both of them hate the Single Room Supplement. Must people go off on their holidays two by two, like animals into an ark?, they think. Why is travelling alone penalised? It’s difficult to travel with other people; you can start the trip as friends and end up as enemies. Shane knew of a case like that.
But several months later they began to realise that that summer they would probably travel together. They admitted it one evening over a plate of spaghetti: they would go to Crete. The only knotty problem was the matter of the Single Room. They weren’t lovers yet, so Shane said that the most sensible thing would be to book a double room, with two separate beds. They were grown-ups, and to sleep in separate bed wouldn’t be a problem. Deep down, they both believe they will end up being lovers, even spending their lives together, but they didn’t want to be forced into it simply because they had to sleep in a double bed.
Their differences became apparent when, looking at a magazine about it, they decided what kind of suitcase to take. Shane chose a huge suitcase with wheels and a matching smaller suitcase. Moya chose two normal suitcases, easy to identify on the carousel, Both of them thought that the other must be looking at the wrong page. A cloud appeared between that happy relationship, but both of them decided to ignore it. However, another storm came in April, when Shane gave Moya a travel iron as a birthday present. Moya desperately wished it was a joke, but it wasnt.
The truth was that Shane wanted to bring mountains of clothes, and spares for everything, to have a wardrobe like a sultan’s. That vision horrified Moya. She planned to bring only the bare minimum, which meant washing it regularly, and therefore spreading it around the room while it dried. That vision horrified Shane. They wish they had met on vacation, so they would have known these things from the beginning, and not to discover that terrible shock at the height of romance.
At first, they thought of booking separate rooms, which could avoid that horrifying visions to them. But it went deeper than that, it seemed to show the kind of people they were, and they eventually realised that it would be impossible to spend two weeks together, let alone a life time. So they transferred their bookings to separate holidays, and with separate hopes and dreams.

PERSONAL OPINION
I like that short story because is both simple and profound. In my opinion, the reflections you can do after reading are more interesting than the story itself.
Here the writer encapsulates the problems of living together. Why do couples divorce? Is it because of philosophical or existential issues, or because she can’t stand the coins falling to the floor every night when he takes off his pants, which drives her crazy? Or because she leaves her purse and wallet lying around day after day, and it takes her hours to find it, which drives him crazy? These are just examples, but I’ve always thought the latter outweighs the former. Another very common problem that also ends relationships is not talking about problems when they arise. They think it won’t happen to them, but when the time comes, they make the same mistake. Has this happened to any of us? I think so.
On the other hand, a holiday trip it’s a moment very well chosen by the author, because it is like an obstacle course that helps you to get to know someone you are interested in. «The couple that travels together stays together», you could say. Age is also very important here. When you are twenty is easy to fall in love and think you can spend your life with a charming person who you just met, but a trip —and in this case even just the planning for it— can ruin everything.

QUESTIONS
-Do you believe in love at first sihgt?
-Do you agree with the popular saying «out of sight, out of mind»?
-In your opinion, what is the difference between liking eomeone and falling in love with someone? Are there special signs which help you to tell the difference between infatuation and love?

VOCABULARY
bedsitter, stamina, glossy, haranguing, dalek, gear, holdall

The Best Days, by Graham Swift

The Best Days, by Dora Sarrión
Sean and Andy are two friends who attend the funeral of Daffy, their former headmaster of Holmgate School, where they had studied six years ago.
It was a grey afternoon and there’d been a solemn and silent moment when the hearse departed, but then, someone had called out “Bye Daffy!!!” and the atmosphere was broken, it was almost like joyful liveliness. People started waving to each other, hand shaking, smiling, speaking. Everyone was freshly aware of being alive in the world and not dead in it.
The two friends spotted in the crowd who assisted to the funeral an old school friend, Karen, whom they both were in love with when they were students.
Karen turned up with her father, who was clearly a bit drunk, and her mother, who was wearing an outfit that was almost identical like his daughter, both were dressed in a vulgar and inappropriate way for a funeral, almost like whores. In Andy’s opinion, the mother “looks a right old baggage”.
These words bothered Sean, because, although deep down he agreed with Andy, he had an experience in the past that brought back him memories about Karen's mother, which were themselves embarrassing, but also pleasant, even exciting.
Sean remembered that, one day, while he was travelling on the bus where Karen was also, he noticed that she had forgotten her bag on the seat when she got off the bus. So he picked it up and decided to deliver it to her house, hoping to see her.
But she wasn't there, Sean found only her mother, who invited him to "come in and wait for her". Sean hesitated for a moment, but in the end he came in.
Suddenly, he found himself in Karen's mother arms and, without being able to avoid it, he lived his first sexual experience with her.
The author mixes several topics in his story:
Death: The atmosphere that usually surrounds funerals is contradictory, on the one hand people usually show sadness and pain for the deceased person but on the other hand, when the coffin is no longer present, they feel relieved and a great joy for the fact of being alive.
The loss of youth, reflected in Karen's mother: Sometimes, it's difficult to recognize the deterioration that the pass of time produces in our physique, and we insist on not accepting that reality, although we know that we cannot hide it even if we disguise ourselves as young people.
Memories: Over the years, when we think back to experiences that we lived in the past, many times they appear in our memory in a blurred way, in a form of sensations, smells, colours, music or phrases. Sometimes, we don't recall the events as they happened, but we can remember the emotions they produced in us. Sean keeps in his mind his first sexual experience, summarized in a sentence, which would stay with him until the day he dies.

QUESTIONS

Talk about the characters

Sean

Andy

Clive Davenport

Karen Shield

Do you have fond memories of your primary or secondary school? Have your opinions changed, positively or negatively, in the course of time?

Do you think unemployed people spend their time doing things that when they were employed couldn’t do?

Graham Swift like to emphasize situations talking about the weather. Did you find an instance of this in this story?

Why do you think a funeral is a good occasion for gathering people?

What kind/class of people attended the funeral? How do you know?

Why does the narrator describe their suits as “interview suits”?

Do you think she had left her bag in the bus on purpose?

Why do you imagine Karen and her friend did at Cheryl Hudson’s?

When the narrator says the “TV was on”, did he want to mean something else?

There are some details to show us that Mrs Shield isn't drunk. What are these? Why does the writer insist on this?

“Had she done this before?” What’s your opinion?

Mrs Shield is very practical: how does the writer show this?

What do you know about In Praise of Older Women, by Stephen Vizinczey, or Elogio de la madrastra, by Vargas Llosa, or about the film Ce que le jour doit à la nuit?

Would you have another point of view of the situation in which the boy was involved, if instead of a boy it had been a girl, and instead of a woman, a man?

After making love, he tried to work out his bearings. Does this feeling have any relation to the saying “Post coitum omne animal triste est, sive gallus et mulier”?

Was Sean a bit in love with Karen’s mother? How do you know?

Can you imagine how the life would be going on for the mother, the daughter, Sean and Andy?

Were those days for Sean the best days?

What is Sean’s moral lesson?

 

VOCABULARY


hearse, spillage, turnout, blustery, daffy, milling, makeshift, grim, barn, craned, drag, stance, abuse, rebuke, outbreaks, drab, flouncy, headpiece, tarty, fetching, sight, smothered, cutely, perky, unredeemed, scruff, blunt, cocky, old baggage, curb, the big V, tugged, goody-goody, delve, primness, sternly, fluffy, deed, ducking, cluttered, glow, bearings, peck, daubed, slab, goggling, prat, lovey-dovey, preening, big-time, jump, get the hots